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      June 3, 2025

      3 Sure Signs of a Healthy Couple

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      May 21, 2025

      What if My Husband Has a Low Sex Drive?

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      May 13, 2025

      Woman, Wives, and Friendship

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      April 15, 2025

      7 Things to Say to Each Other DAILY

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      January 21, 2025

      Are You in a Truly Christian Marriage?

    • For Men
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      August 8, 2023

      The Five Facets of a Fierce Man

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      July 11, 2023

      Thoughts Concerning Men and Marriage

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      January 24, 2023

      Fighting Sexual Temptation Like a Man

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      January 17, 2023

      5 Phrase Every Wife Needs to Hear Often

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      November 8, 2022

      Help, I Have a Passive Husband!

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      May 13, 2025

      Woman, Wives, and Friendship

    • For Women
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      August 2, 2022

      Let’s Talk About Modesty

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      April 15, 2021

      When Your Serving is Motivated by Fear

    • For Women
      November 5, 2020

      6 Thoughts on You, Your Husband and His Fight Against Pornography

    • For Women
      May 21, 2020

      Dealing with Toxic People (Gary Thomas)

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      April 15, 2025

      7 Things to Say to Each Other DAILY

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      January 21, 2025

      Are You in a Truly Christian Marriage?

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      January 15, 2025

      How to Pray Together in Marriage (even when it’s awkward)

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      December 3, 2024

      Why You NEED to Join a Good Church for the Good of Your Marriage

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      October 30, 2024

      5 Ways to FINALLY Get Unity Around Time and Priorities

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      May 21, 2025

      What if My Husband Has a Low Sex Drive?

    • Sex & Intimacy
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      December 17, 2024

      What if I’m in a Sexless Marriage?

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      October 24, 2024

      Lessons Learned about S-X in 20ish Years of Marriage

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      April 1, 2024

      The 8 Purposes of S-E-X (and Why They’re Not What You Think)

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      February 20, 2024

      Follow-Up: Answering Questions About Husbands Initiating Intimacy

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      November 12, 2024

      5 Lessons Learned to Stop Arguing About MONEY

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      April 3, 2024

      Should we tithe? Separate bank accounts? What if we disagree about money?

    • Money & Finances
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      June 28, 2023

      Finding Marital Unity Around MONEY and GIVING

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      May 9, 2023

      Is a Husband’s Failure to Provide Grounds for Divorce?

    • Money & Finances
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      February 28, 2023

      Living (Well) Beneath Your Financial Means

    • Communication
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      June 3, 2025

      3 Sure Signs of a Healthy Couple

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      October 11, 2024

      4 Massive Lessons Learned on Communication

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      June 5, 2024

      10 (Simple) Ways to De-Escalate Arguments and Fights

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      March 4, 2024

      Help! My Wife Wears Yoga Pants to the Gym and I Hate It

    • Communication
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      January 16, 2024

      The Art of Asking Great Questions (and Why it Changes Everything in Marriage)

    • Accountability
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      September 25, 2024

      The Greatest Adultery Repellant Known to Man

    • Accountability
      August 14, 2024

      Creating Healthy Boundaries Around Tech in Marriage (Part 2 of 2)

    • Accountability
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      June 25, 2024

      The Foundation of Trust in Marriage (Building and Repairing Trust, 1 of 5)

    • Accountability
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      June 18, 2024

      Don’t Be Blindsided by Divorce, Do This Marriage Check Up!

    • Accountability
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      March 4, 2024

      Help! My Wife Wears Yoga Pants to the Gym and I Hate It

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      July 26, 2018

      Video: 8 Characteristics of a Healthy Sex Life

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      July 17, 2018

      How is Your Phone Hurting Your Marriage? (Part 1)

    • Videos
      April 3, 2017

      Video: 3 Bulletproof Ways to Build Unstoppable Unity

    • Videos
      August 5, 2016

      Video: How to Fight Familiarity in Your Marriage

    • Videos
      May 24, 2016

      Video: The Pressure of Perfection

    • Vlog
      April 3, 2017

      Video: 3 Bulletproof Ways to Build Unstoppable Unity

    • Vlog
      August 5, 2016

      Video: How to Fight Familiarity in Your Marriage

    • Vlog
      May 24, 2016

      Video: The Pressure of Perfection

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      April 25, 2016

      Video: Maintaining a Healthy Sex Life After We’ve Had Kids

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      March 30, 2016

      Video: 4 Important Things to Remember When Talking To Your Spouse

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      March 11, 2015

      Video: Blind Devotion

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      May 5, 2014

      Video: Look Up

    • Fun/Encouraging
      December 30, 2013

      Video: John Piper, Tim Keller, and D.A. Carson on Sustaining the Marriage Covenant

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      December 11, 2013

      Video: 12 Stages of a Proper Car Fight

    • Fun/Encouraging
      October 25, 2013

      Video: What does selfless love look like?

    • Videos
      July 26, 2018

      Video: 8 Characteristics of a Healthy Sex Life

    • Videos
      July 17, 2018

      How is Your Phone Hurting Your Marriage? (Part 1)

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      April 3, 2017

      Video: 3 Bulletproof Ways to Build Unstoppable Unity

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      August 5, 2016

      Video: How to Fight Familiarity in Your Marriage

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      May 24, 2016

      Video: The Pressure of Perfection

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      June 17, 2025

      Will These “Magic Questions” Help Your Marriage? (Part 1 of 2)

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      June 3, 2025

      3 Sure Signs of a Healthy Couple

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      May 28, 2025

      True Friends will Advocate for Your Marriage and Not Just for You

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      May 21, 2025

      What if My Husband Has a Low Sex Drive?

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      May 13, 2025

      Woman, Wives, and Friendship

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      June 17, 2025

      Will These “Magic Questions” Help Your Marriage? (Part 1 of 2)

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      June 3, 2025

      3 Sure Signs of a Healthy Couple

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      May 28, 2025

      True Friends will Advocate for Your Marriage and Not Just for You

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      May 21, 2025

      What if My Husband Has a Low Sex Drive?

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      May 13, 2025

      Woman, Wives, and Friendship

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