March 27, 2023

The ONE Question that Could Change Everything

ONE Thought (from us)

Hands down, one of the best ways to get out of a rut is to ask open ended questions. Questions asked in earnest have a way of disarming defenses and sparking productive dialogue. Whatever dysfunction you’re dealing with, there’s always a question to be asked that can break the ice. Of all the questions you could ask for the various challenges you face, this single question is the most helpful: How can I love you better today? 

By asking the above question (and getting specific answers), you take the focus off yourselves, disarm defenses, and get immediate, actionable feedback firsthand. No more guessing, no more stagnation.

So, what are you waiting for? Why not ask your spouse this question today?

“Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.” (Proverbs 19:20)

ONE Quote (from another)

“At the beginning, your love supports your marriage. Later on, your marriage supports your love.”

– Larry Christiansen

ONE Question (for you)

When is a good time to ask your spouse how you can love him/her better? Got a time in mind? Now go for it!


Until next week, stay fierce!

Ryan & Selena Frederick
Founders of Fierce Marriage