Divorcing Society’s Ideals for Marriage April 11, 2014 | Selena Frederick
The “15 Second Kiss” Experiment April 9, 2014 | Ryan Frederick
4 Things to Consider the Next Time You Feel Misunderstood... April 4, 2014 | Ryan Frederick
Gritty Love: Why Sex on the Beach is Pure Fiction... March 31, 2014 | Ryan Frederick
3 Things I’ve Learned from Unanswered Prayer... March 25, 2014 | Ryan Frederick
Stop judging your spouse March 10, 2014 | Selena Frederick
Finances in Marriage: 7 Principles Every Couple Should Consider... March 5, 2014 | Ryan Frederick
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There are thousands of posts online about “how to communicate” in marriage and how to argue in a healthy way. But what if you want to be truly terrible at it? Where do you turn for advice? Well, friends, you’ve come to the right place!
Here are 10 horrible tips for marital communication. No matter the topic of your disagreement, if you follow these horrible …
Have you ever tried to do a DIY project?
Honestly, I feel like I am somewhat of a creative mind, but when it comes to DIY projects (hello Pinterest) I’m like a first-grader learning how to write in cursive.
A few Christmas’ ago I tried to do spoon rings for my Young Life girls. Easy-peasy right? Get a few sterling silver spoons from …
Nothing replaces quality, focused time with your spouse. There are no substitutes and no shortcuts. We’re learning and relearning this concept in our marriage. Whenever Selena and I allow our time together to be eroded by life’s chaos and busyness, our marriage suffers. How?
- We’re impatient with each other
- Sex is infrequent and/or insincere
- Frustrations mount as grace runs dry
- We’re increasingly inconsiderate of …
During one of our Young Life Leader meetings, my area director shared with us from a popular devotional, Jesus Calling. The day was Feb. 3 and it talked about Jesus being with us and for us (Romans 8:31).
Of course, I started contemplating how these two beautiful and miraculous facts worked into marriage.
At our meeting we were studying it in terms of youth ministry and how often we …
In my previous post, we covered the first two ways you can prove your love to your spouse: transparency/honesty, and loving them when they’re unloveable.* If you haven’t yet, I recommend quickly clicking back to give it a glance (it’s reasonably short), as it sets the stage for the series.
Naturally this post will continue with parts 3 and 4 of the series, so let’s …
This Valentine’s Day couples young and old will strive to prove their love via candy, poems, songs, flowers, and helium balloons. It’s funny though, do these things actually do anything to convince our spouses of our love? Yes and no.
If your marriage is healthy, Valentine’s Day gestures will extend an already present sentiment during a festive time of year – which is great! If …
We often oversimplify and associate manly needs in a relationship with physical affection and leave it there. Women are the softer side of the marriage, right? Guys are all grit and sports and beards and cars and red meat and stuff – real Ron Swansons if you know what I mean.
We must not forget that men can be very emotional; even intensely emotional. I’d …
My mornings are like pure clockwork: I wake up at exactly 6AM, grab some coffee, have 45 minutes of devotions, shower for 10 minutes, take the dogs for a 15 minute walk, play with Adelaide for 30 minutes, chat with Selena about her day for 10 minutes, leave for work at 7:50AM and start working at 8AM sharp. Every day is like that, without exception, and …