10 Ways to Pray for Your Husband September 8, 2014 | Selena Frederick
4 Reminders to Help When Your Marriage is Tough... September 4, 2014 | Ryan Frederick
Is Social Media Causing Sin In Your Marriage?... August 28, 2014 | Selena Frederick
10 Keys to 42 Years of Loving Marriage August 20, 2014 | Ryan Frederick
4 Things Every Husband Needs to Hear Daily... August 15, 2014 | Ryan Frederick
Book Review: The Best Yes (by Lysa Terkeurst)... August 12, 2014 | Selena Frederick
Let it Go: Pebbles, Mountains, & Marriage... July 31, 2014 | Ryan Frederick
Hi, we’re Ryan and Selena Frederick.
Fierce Marriage is our blog devoted to helping couples build better marriages. We believe that building a Christ-centered marriage requires a fierce tenacity that never gives up and never gives in; there is no Plan B. When we vowed “Till death do us part”, we meant it!
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If you asked me how I would describe my life in one word, I would of course have to use two and say “in-between.”
Our latest life adventure has taken us to the small fishing town of Westport, WA where we are blessed to be able to enjoy summer a stone’s throw away from the beautiful Pacific Ocean.
If you do a search for “life hacks”, you’ll get a veritable smorgasbord of results – videos, blog posts, and commentaries – all helpful for streamlining your daily life. A friend recently released a free eBook called “Marriage Hacks: 25 Practical Ways to Make Love Last” with the same goal for young married couples: give young, disillusioned couples a refreshing dose of marital truths.
All too often I’m guilty of allowing ungodly friendships to have a “say” in my marriage.
I’m not saying we’re suppose to shun all of our married unbeliever friends and never hangout with them. What I am saying is that having filters on who we let have a voice in our marriage is a way of fighting fiercely for it.
You can tell a person’s character by how they use their smartphone. It’s a veritable thermometer for the health of your integrity.
What would happen if you immediately dropped your phone (unlocked) and your spouse picked it up? What thoughts go through your mind? What would your husband/wife discover?
When we talk about transparency, the response is nearly unanimous: it’s a vital part of marriage and relationships. You really can’t build a meaningful bond with your spouse if you’re hiding part of yourself. But most often, hiding is our first instinct.
As you most of you probably know, Ryan, Dela and I are in the middle of a major life transition.
And to be honest, the transition is much harder than I anticipated. Suddenly all the little things that frustrated me
We’ve had a quiet spell on the blog, this post explains why. In short, things are changing for us and just to clear the air, we’re not pregnant (that we know of!).
Change is tough. Well, usually it’s tough. Change means that whatever you’re used to, comfortable with, and reasonably good at must now be different. The thing about change is that it must happen – you simply cannot avoid it if you want progress. As it turns out, we’re not immune.
Selena and I have had our secrets. We’ve hidden things from each other in our marriage, both purposefully and passively. We’ve masked poor financial choices, hidden sexual addiction, and “failed to mention” costly mistakes. It wasn’t until relatively recently that we discovered the power of transparency in our marriage.